• Gonzako@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    I hate these kinds of posts too. All they do is promote division in these times we have to stick together against the billionaires

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      5 hours ago

      While I do agree with your sentiment I think its critical we work thru the issue so the rich can’t use it against us. Somehow get to an understanding that men and women face issues, both should be supported.

      There’s still too many men who can’t understand why a woman would ever choose the bear.

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        3 hours ago

        Except polling on most issues regarding women are positive. No one is favor of more rape, lower wages, and sexual harassment.

        That being said the bear analogy pisses me off

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      The worst part… it works. E.g. on me, and i know. It is difficult to see these kind of posts, which are clearly misandry, and then hear people deny the trend for misandry, especially online.

      OBVIOUSLY there is a shit tonne of misogyny, especially online and that is a big problem. But we shouldn’t ignore the trend to misandry. It is not a competition and we fight against misogyny better if we fight sexism in general, I believe.

      But the posts make me feel like a shocking amount of people are not against sexism but just misogyny. How am I supposed to feel like those are not my enemy when I am opposed to sexism?

      Then I spend time with the people that I love and I am good again but… it is fucking poison.

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        11 hours ago

        This post still isn’t at bad as a roofie.

        We can start working on posts like this once we’ve solved the roofie problem.

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            40 minutes ago

            That’s usually not true.

            But with this specific issue, the most efficient solution is to help women. Women are being mean to the man community because the man community is harming women. There’s no solution that will get women to be nicer to your community more efficiently than getting your community to be nicer to women.

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          11 hours ago

          A roofie isn’t as bad as the bombing of schoolchildren. We can start working on roofing until we’ve solved the warcrime problem.

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          10 hours ago

          Why is roofying bad? She won’t remember it, and that’s good enough for women when they circumcise their infant boys.

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            10 hours ago

            Circumcision is actually horrible. My partner is still really sad it was circumcised even after all those years.

            Circumcision doesn’t just affect men. People of all genders are circumcised and suffer for it. So please don’t make light of circumcision.