An attractive girl talking to me for more than a few sentences is automatically sending mixed messages. Obviously they don’t like me, why are they talking to me? I’m confused.
And even if they out rightly say they like me they are probably just being nice and I should laugh and carry on with my day.
I told a guy the other day at work that I liked his shirt and he totally lit up lol
You probably made his year
*His life
Never forget that old lady calling me handsome in the supermarket
I have recieved more compliments girlmoding in the last 4 months than I ever did boymoding in the almost 20 years between highschool and beginning transition.
To the random woman with dark red hair who said my hair looked good on me in 2008, I still remember the feeling.
I couldn’t even tell you why the last person complimented me though. It doesn’t feel the same since I get them more often.
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Lucky you getting all the compliments!
I’ve chosen to adopt random acts of male positivity. I make a point of stopping random male presenting strangers (I’m cis het male, randomly stopping women to complement them is not a realistic option) and just saying something like “hey dude, that hair is magnificent, keep being awesome man” and promptly leaving.
It’s not completely altruistic, I must admit. Watching a stranger’s face go from puzzled/suspicious through relieved, pleasantly surprised and ending in (usually) happy is an absolute joy.
